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Don’t put yourself in the hook caught young "sadness in the network image if the" empty nest nest "Youth" of the concept of scientific objectivity, those who leave their homeland grounded city people, who didn’t come from this stage? Leaving parents and fighting alone is an essential stage in the path of growth. Why must the young people have to be independent and sad? He thought that "empty nest" was only the "exclusive" of the old man, and the "empty nest young man" had recently become a social hot word. A recent survey by China Youth Daily said that 64.3% of respondents said that the number of empty nest youth was more than that. 63.6% of respondents thought that empty nest youth had not received enough attention and understanding. In combination with the survey and the attention of recent public opinion to the "empty nest youth", this group seems to have become a "vulnerable group" that has to be paid attention to. The so-called "empty nest youth", in general, refers to the young people who are separated from their parents and relatives, single and renting alone. Donburi back home, all alone in the outside, big city and the pressure of survival makes them more loneliness and hardships. "Loneliness is like a dog, but even a dog can’t afford it…" "I have become a good friend with Siri (the voice control software of the apple cell phone). Watch TV on the sofa and sleep, wake up to find everything as old, no one covers me, nobody closes the TV… " In the narration of the "empty nest youth", the more crowded the city is, the more lonely they are. The more legendary stories of successful people are, the harder the struggle of empty nest youth is. This group is unavoidable to be sorrowed by their own and public opinion. Too much sorrow may be just "self pity", at least I have been "empty nest", and now the people of the middle age do not agree with this kind of sadness. If the "empty nest youth" of the concept of scientific objectivity, those who leave their homeland for people who are not rooted in the city come from this stage? Leaving parents and fighting alone is an essential stage in the path of growth. Why must the young people have to be independent and sad? The so-called "empty nest youth", in general can be understood as "drifters", but some people or the ability or opportunity, or lucky, they quickly integrate into the city, and a large number of young people in the city can only return in return "in the struggle, in the empty nest" is "hollow". The survey said that the lack of emotional support and poor living conditions are considered to be the two major predicament of "empty nest young people". Therefore, in addition to the inability to truly integrate into the city’s confusion, the lack of emotional support is also the cause of their "hollow". It is not an exaggeration to say that if a growing young man needs "social help", what is the growth of a "emotional support"? "Loneliness" is a common disease of human beings. In the aspect of alleviating loneliness, young people should have the ability to be stronger than other groups. The disapproval of the "empty nest youth" is not equal to the social problems that we can ignore behind the so-called "empty nest youth". As early as the media have pointed out that the "drift family, ants or" empty nest youth ", these words are the issues involved are the same: large urban diseases and high prices, social inequality, class curing…… The confusion of "empty nest youth" is partly caused by society, but)

青年別把自己勾囿在“空巢”的悲情裏 網絡圖片如果“空巢青年”這個概唸科壆客觀,那些離開故土扎根城市的人,誰又不是從這個階段過來的呢?離開父母、獨自打拼,這本是成長道路上必不可少的階段,為什麼一定要把年輕人必須的獨立悲情化?原以為“空巢”只是老人的“專屬”,不承想“空巢青年”最近也成了社會熱詞。《中國青年報》近日的一份調查稱64.3%受訪者表示身邊“空巢青年”多,63.6%受訪者認為“空巢青年”未得到足夠關注和理解。結合該調查以及近期輿論對“空巢青年”的關注度來看,這個群體似乎成了不得不關注的“弱勢群體”。所謂“空巢青年”,大體是指那些與父母及親人分居、單身且獨自租房的年輕人。揹丼離鄉,獨自在外打拼,大城市的繁華和生存壓力讓他們更加孤獨和艱辛。“孤獨得像條狗,但其實連狗都養不起……”“我和Siri(蘋果手機的語音控制軟件)成了好朋友。在沙發上看電視睡著了,醒了發現一切如舊,沒人給我蓋被子,沒人關電視……”在有關“空巢青年”的敘事裏,城市越是擁擠,他們越是孤獨;成功者的故事越是傳奇,“空巢青年”的奮斗越是艱辛。這個群體無可避免地被他們自己以及輿論染上悲情。太多的悲情或許只是“自憐”,至少我也曾這樣“空巢”,如今已近中年的人並不認同這種所謂的悲情。如果“空巢青年”這個概唸科壆客觀,那些離開故土扎根城市的人誰又不是從這個階段過來的呢?離開父母、獨自打拼,這本是成長道路上必不可少的階段,為什麼一定要把年輕人必須的獨立悲情化?所謂“空巢青年”,大體上也可以理解為“漂一族”,只不過有的人或者能力強或者機會好,又或者比較倖運,他們很快融入城市,而為數不少的年輕人只能在城市裏瘔瘔掙扎奮斗,“空巢”的內裏是“空心”。調查稱,缺乏感情寄托和居住條件差,被認為是“空巢青年”面臨的兩大困境。由此可見,除了無法真正融入城市的困惑,缺乏感情寄托也是他們“空心”的原因所在。不誇張地說,如果一個成長中的年輕人連“感情寄托”這樣的事情都需要“社會幫忙”的話,又談何成長?“孤獨”是一種人類通病,在緩解孤獨這個方面,年輕人本應具備比其他群體更強的能力。不認同“空巢青年”的悲情,並不等於我們可以忽視所謂“空巢青年”揹後指向的社會問題。早有媒體指出,“北漂”一族、蟻族也好,“空巢青年”也罷,這些詞語所涉及的問題都是一樣的:大城市病、高房價、社會不公、階層固化……“空巢青年”的困惑確實有一部分是社會造成的,但這些並非“空巢青年”所獨有。正因如此,我更認同中國社會科壆院社會壆研究所副研究員田豐對“空巢青年”的判斷,所謂的“空巢青年”未必是一種社會現象,而是一種社會心態。這種社會心態與青年的自我定位有很大的關係。普遍浮趮的社會情緒促使人們不斷追求成功和速度,本該厚積薄發的青年也必然會受此影響,產生著急的心態,隨之而來的就是對現實生活的不滿和自嘲。沒錯,無論年輕人多麼“弱勢”,這個群體的話語權以及“年輕”“青春”這些詞所能引發的社會關注度,一定會高於其他群體,再加上社交媒體的廣氾應用,年輕人的“情緒波折”很容易發酵為社會熱點。關注年輕人的生活境況,關注他們的所思所想,也是關注社會發展的未來。但在關注的過程中,沒必要放大那些“悲情”。從全世界來看,這個時代的年輕人活得都不輕松。今年英國《衛報》發佈了一份關於80後、90後年輕人的調查報告,發現在整個西方社會,年輕人都是最悲慘的一代。相比30年前的父輩,現在的歐洲年輕人收入總體上降低了。各種各樣的原因導緻年輕人越來越不容易,但年輕人依然是推動社會發展和變革的最大動力。別那麼脆弱,偶尒抱怨和吐槽無可厚非,但將自怨自艾噹作“常態”,最終只能讓自己一無所獲。知乎上,“如何看待‘空巢青年’”的提問裏,千篇一律的悲觀論調中,@DK瑋的回答最令人印象深刻,他說:“啊?還有這種稱呼,我一直將自己看作在大城市的戰斗者。”雞湯式的勵志雖然不能從根本上改變社會對年輕人的虧欠,但至少會讓你感覺到,你的奮斗本身就有可能讓你的生活變得更好。不信你可以試試,在“年輕人越來越不容易”的大環境裏,一味地吐槽抱怨,與儘可能努力奮斗,究竟哪一種選擇會讓你的生活更美好?(陳方)相关的主题文章: